Today is also cloudy and lazy day.. My good friend and collegue.. moumi is leaving the company.. Monday will be the last working day for her. so today we have some talk/gossip :) at caferteria.. I gonna miss her surely.. i will miss my friend very much.. :'(..
A thought came into my mind.. What is unconditional love?? what unconditional love means?? what is it???
I guess.. Unconditional love is a love which wants nothing in return but still loves u..
Then my next question is Do it exists?? Atleast for me it doesn't. I cant love anybody without expecting anything in return. If i love somone i want the same in return.. If it doesnt come back it really hurts.. ya it hurts badly.. I noe that pain.. :(
So may be my love is conditional love.. is it bad?? but i can't help it.. i want love in return.. Ya i want my part of love.. but sometimes ppl don't return what they get.. so is it my mistake? or i didnt love them enough so that they can return it to me? i don't noe what happens but sometimes Newton's third law is not followed..
I want to be loved as i love ppl.. is there any way out? Why ppl doesnt feel the same way we do? why??? I guess there is no answers..........
Itne saare questions k baad mujhe ek hi gaana yaad aa raha hai.. Here it is:
Movie Name: Kaho na pyaar hai
Song: Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Lyrics: Ibrahim Ashq
Singers: Lucky Ali
Lyrics:
Kyoon Chalti Hai Pawan ?
Why does the wind blow ?
Kyoon Jhoomey Hai Gagan ?
Why does the sky ( horizon) swing ?
Kyoon Machchalta Hai Mann ?
Why does the heart become merry?
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Neither you know , nor I
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
A thought came into my mind.. What is unconditional love?? what unconditional love means?? what is it???
I guess.. Unconditional love is a love which wants nothing in return but still loves u..
Then my next question is Do it exists?? Atleast for me it doesn't. I cant love anybody without expecting anything in return. If i love somone i want the same in return.. If it doesnt come back it really hurts.. ya it hurts badly.. I noe that pain.. :(
So may be my love is conditional love.. is it bad?? but i can't help it.. i want love in return.. Ya i want my part of love.. but sometimes ppl don't return what they get.. so is it my mistake? or i didnt love them enough so that they can return it to me? i don't noe what happens but sometimes Newton's third law is not followed..
I want to be loved as i love ppl.. is there any way out? Why ppl doesnt feel the same way we do? why??? I guess there is no answers..........
Itne saare questions k baad mujhe ek hi gaana yaad aa raha hai.. Here it is:
Movie Name: Kaho na pyaar hai
Song: Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Lyrics: Ibrahim Ashq
Singers: Lucky Ali
Lyrics:
Kyoon Chalti Hai Pawan ?
Why does the wind blow ?
Kyoon Jhoomey Hai Gagan ?
Why does the sky ( horizon) swing ?
Kyoon Machchalta Hai Mann ?
Why does the heart become merry?
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Neither you know , nor I
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Kyoon Aati Hai Bahar ?
Why does the breeze come ?
Kyoon Lut Ta Hai Qaraar ?
Why does one lose peace of mind?
Kyoon Hota Hai Pyaar ?
Why does love happen ?
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Na Tum Jano Na Hum...
Ye Madhoshiyaan, Ye Tanhaiyaan
These intoxications , these tensions
Tasavur Mein Hain Kis Ki Parchaiyaan ?
Whose shadows are these in one's imagination ?
Ye Bheega Samaa, Umangein Jawan
This wet season , these impulses of youth
Mujhe Ishq Le Ja Raha Hai Kahan ?
Where is this feeling of being in love taking me ?
Kyoon Goom Hai Har Dishaa ?
Why are all the four directions circling ?
Kyoon Hota Hai Nashaa ?
Why this feeling of drunkness ?
Kyoon Aata Hai Mazaa ?
Why this feeling of enjoyment ?
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Neither you know nor I
Dhadakta Bhi Hai, Tadapta Bhi Hai
It beats faster , it is tormented too
Ye Dil Kyoon Achanak Bahekta Bhi Hai ?
Why has this heart suddenly gone haywire ?
Mahekta Bhi Hai, Chahekta Bhi Hai
It perfumes , it likes it
Ye Dil Kya Waffa Ko Samajhta Bhi Hai ?
Does this heart even understand faithfulness ?
Kyoon Milti Hai Nazar ?
Why do eyes meet ?
Kyoon Hota Hai Assar ?
Why does one feel agreeable ?
Kyoon Hoti Hai Sahar
Why does ? Sahar
rest is repeated
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Kyoon Chalti Hai Pawan
Kyoon Jhoomey Hai Gagan
Kyoon Machchalta Hai Mann
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Kyoon Aati Hai Bahar
Kyoon Lut Ta Hai Qaraar
Kyoon Hota Hai Pyaar
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Na Tum Jano Na Hum...
Why does the breeze come ?
Kyoon Lut Ta Hai Qaraar ?
Why does one lose peace of mind?
Kyoon Hota Hai Pyaar ?
Why does love happen ?
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Na Tum Jano Na Hum...
Ye Madhoshiyaan, Ye Tanhaiyaan
These intoxications , these tensions
Tasavur Mein Hain Kis Ki Parchaiyaan ?
Whose shadows are these in one's imagination ?
Ye Bheega Samaa, Umangein Jawan
This wet season , these impulses of youth
Mujhe Ishq Le Ja Raha Hai Kahan ?
Where is this feeling of being in love taking me ?
Kyoon Goom Hai Har Dishaa ?
Why are all the four directions circling ?
Kyoon Hota Hai Nashaa ?
Why this feeling of drunkness ?
Kyoon Aata Hai Mazaa ?
Why this feeling of enjoyment ?
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Neither you know nor I
Dhadakta Bhi Hai, Tadapta Bhi Hai
It beats faster , it is tormented too
Ye Dil Kyoon Achanak Bahekta Bhi Hai ?
Why has this heart suddenly gone haywire ?
Mahekta Bhi Hai, Chahekta Bhi Hai
It perfumes , it likes it
Ye Dil Kya Waffa Ko Samajhta Bhi Hai ?
Does this heart even understand faithfulness ?
Kyoon Milti Hai Nazar ?
Why do eyes meet ?
Kyoon Hota Hai Assar ?
Why does one feel agreeable ?
Kyoon Hoti Hai Sahar
Why does ? Sahar
rest is repeated
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Kyoon Chalti Hai Pawan
Kyoon Jhoomey Hai Gagan
Kyoon Machchalta Hai Mann
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Kyoon Aati Hai Bahar
Kyoon Lut Ta Hai Qaraar
Kyoon Hota Hai Pyaar
Na Tum Jano Na Hum
Na Tum Jano Na Hum...
Mood: Emotional
Current Book: Selected Short Stories by Joseph Conrad.
Updated Lists of books i have read click here.
Hmmm... your post made me put my thinking cap on (had to shake of the dust it had gathered).
I think, its not too difficult to be unconditionally in love. It may not be about being loved back in return; from my perspective unconditional love would more be about accepting the other person as she/he is... A perfect example of it is the kind of love you see exhibited by parents & children, brothers & sisters, true friends, and the best of romantic relationships.
Love would always be returned with love, but not necessarily from the objects of our affection. When we can accept this fact, I guess it'll hurt less if the person we love does not reciprocate.
What say?
Is that so easy? Need to think..
Nobody said its easy, definitely not. But as I said, when we realize that Love can return back to us from unexpected sources - it hurts less.
The problem with us (or atleast was with me) is we keep looking for love at the wrong place OR from the wrong person: maybe it/they are not going to love us back. But in this process we miss the love and affection that is being showered upon us from where we are not looking or expecting - hurting the person in the process...
...BUT life is too short for worries, keep smiling.
Hmm dats true..keep smiling :)